Wedding Tips!
How to seduce a Polish woman?

If you ask yourself why should you do it, while she would love to marry you, a Western man, anyway, think, that it is not too much to do - however she will be grateful and she will make it up to you in a very lovely way!

Polish women are perceived usually as pretty, feminine, with a good taste for cloths and elegant. No wonder that many men from different countries ask how to deal with a Polish girl they have a crash on.

First of all, you do have to behave no worse than Polish men do. Polish men are gentlemen, they open doors and let women always first through the door whether into (or out from) the restaurant, store, car or through any other door. The popular welcome among people (both, men and women) on a personal level is a kiss in right and left cheek. But do not try to kiss her in a cheek during the first welcome this may be seen as too arrogant and intrusive into personal space. Very elegant and old habit is to kiss a woman hand by a man during welcome. This habit is fading away, or it is being restricted only towards old ladies to show a respect. But you need to know how to kiss a hand properly, if you are not sure how forget about it because the effect may be opposite from expected.
Typical Polish men also would offer help to care a heavy luggage or suitcase to a lady. On the other hand if you are a foreign woman in Poland and a man offers a help to carry the luggage - be careful, sometimes it can be a gentlemen but sometimes a thief who wants to use your naïveté or he would demand a tip or another kind of service from you (for instance to take your money).

If you really want to win a girl's heart bring a fresh flower on a first date. In Poland flowers are given on many occasions like weddings, birthdays etc. If you are invited to visit a Polish house you are expected to bring a souvenir - usually flowers for a hostess, in some occasions also an elegant bottle of alcohol for a host. Flowers, beautiful flowers are available in Poland everywhere, especially on the farmers markets. So, please, do not forget about a flower unless it is a winter and flowers may be just too expensive or inaccessible.

If you go to the restaurant try to be elegant, always ask first what she wants to eat etc. Let her sit first in the restaurant. Pour vodka to her glass first. But do not be pushy and do not ask her to drink more. Do not drink too much also. Alcoholism is a social problem in Poland especially among the men. You may lose all your chances if you would be tipsy. The first impression is very important. Tell her that you love her immediately. Do try to impress her by talking only about your achievements and how much money you have. Listen to her also, sense of humor could be helpful in your first conversation. Try to show that you are an intelligent, strong, self-assured, self-centered and self-confident man and the most important show that you are protective of her. For instance if you would leave the restaurant and it would be cold and she would have only a light dress on offer your jacket to her.

Pay the bill in the restaurant or movie theatre. Polish women usually do not have money. In Poland splitting the bill in restaurants is not common. Usually one person pay the full bill, this one who invites the others and a man more often than a woman.
Polish women are usually good cooks. When she invites you for a dinner bring a flower and appreciate the food.

Try to learn some Polish words. Below is a sample:

"English word"="Polish equivalent" (pronunciation)

"good morning"or "good day"="dzien dobry" (djen dobri)
"good-bye"="do widzenia" (do veedzenya)
"see you tomorrow"="do jutra" (do you-tra)
"please" = "prosze" (prosheh)
"I love you"="kocham cie" (coham cheu)
"thank-you"="dziekuje" (djenkoo-yeh)

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